Monday, 22 July 2013

My Childhood and How I Don't freaking want to GROW UP!

My Childhood...

I was always the shy kid. I was the one who wouldn't talk that much. Although I was shy, I remember having few friends and always having fun with them. In school, we would sit around and gossip even during the lessons! "Oh did you know she isn't friend with ______" "She is so weird!" We used to have a lot of fun. You know, whenever you're young, you just want to grow up! Grow up because you didn't want people to be the boss of you. Grow up because you thought having a full-time job would make you happy. It seems like time doesn't wait for you. Time. Time is so cruel, it takes away your childhood. 

Always sitting next to my best friend in my all of my classes. Not even paying attention. Looking around, fooling with other friends. I sure do miss those days. I always used to sit next to my cousin in all of my classes. Whenever a new year started, we would both sit next to each other. One time when we were talking a lot, the teacher separated us both. We cried! Due to our crying, the teacher had to put us both together again! 

Looking back, I sometimes think that I wish there was a time machine so I could re-live the moments that I miss the most. I wasn't actually a bright student! I was one of those who would fail mostly the entire test, but in the exams I would barely pass. Let's say the passing marks were 60 out of 100 and I would get 59! Though it all changed when I reached year 7! I don't know what happened but I started to pay more attention in my classes. 

I remember that whenever I failed my test, my teacher would beat me with stick! It used to hurt a lot. My hand would get bruises. Black; blue; purple. They would get so sore that whenever I touched it, it would sting like hell! But now, I would do anything to go back; say Hi to my friends and say how much I miss them... I have lost all contacts with them. It really sucks! 


I just don't want to grow up! I mean, I know growing up means you are more mature, you can take care of yourself.... but I don't want to. I’m always thinking about going to University, then finding a job. Frightening. I don't get it! Since I'm super duper shy, I think it would be much harder for me to find new friends, let alone finding a job. Life is like a cycle. You grow up, go to school; college, then university where the government pulls your whole body into debt! Then you spend your whole life giving that money back. You would be spending your nights and days earning money so that you won't end up on the streets dying. Such a cruel place the Earth is. I know, I know, I should be thankful to be having the privilege to get education, getting a job, having a place to live. I'm so thankful, but it's in our nature to always question why things can't be our way.

If things were in my hand, I would make sure that I spend more time with friends than in school because at the end of the day, ten years from now, when you look back, you won't laugh and smile because you got higher grades, you would laugh at the moments you spent with your friends, those lessons that you bunked with friends... the list goes on. 

All I want to say is that even though you're growing up, you should take a day off. You don't have to spend it with your friends or family (but if you do that would be GREAT!) and go out somewhere. Give yourself a treat; don't be too hard on yourself. Go on a picnic, spend time with nature. And spend less time criticising yourself like I do! Love yourself. Take risks because at the end, we always regret the things that we haven't done.


Peace and Take Care x

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